| October 1996 |
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One has become calm, one has gone beyond getting old; one has gone beyond being born. | |||
| Most of us have grown up in a very materialistic, highly competitive society; we have lost touch with our roots. It is almost as though we need to rediscover and learn about ritual as a means for gladdening and freeing the heart. We also need to learn how to avoid the pitfalls that hinder this process. Firstly, there is the tendency to make too much of ritual, becoming intensely self conscious and anxious about getting everything just right, almost as though that in itself can somehow assist or delay our progress to Nibbana. The other extreme is to dismiss them as having no useful purpose - something simply to be endured or avoided altogether. However, when there is mindfulness sati and clear comprehension sampajanna we realise that there is no need either to follow them unquestioningly or to dismiss them; we can simply participate - or not - with awareness. Some people might feel an immediate sense of ease, intense joy or devotion; others might experience powerful resistance or aversion, or feelings of shyness and fear of making a mistake. These different responses can easily be understood in terms of the conditioning we have received over the years, but by remaining attentive to them and to what is happening around us we can find a sense of relaxation and ease. We begin to notice how the heart responds to such simple things as preparing and caring for a shrine, making offerings with reverence, chanting, bowing - either alone or with a group. We no longer need to judge ourselves or to maintain any fixed idea about what is happening. When questioned by the Brahmin students, Punnaka and Nanda about the place of rituals and offerings in helping one to go beyond birth and aging, his response was that, in themselves, making offerings, listening to religious teachings and performing rituals were not enough - it is only through a total understanding of attachments that one can go beyond. It is only: When a person has assessed the world from top to bottom, when there is nothing in the world that raises a flicker of agitation, then one has become a person free from the smoke fumes, the tremblings and the hunger of desire. One has become calm, one has gone beyond getting old; one has gone beyond being born.* (* Sutta Nipata, translated by Ven Dr Saddhatissa, published by The Curson Press) So the rituals we have can be seen as a means for freeing the heart from self concerns - as opportunities to say a wholehearted, "yes!" to what we value most, putting all our energy into realising Nibbana. We no longer need to tumble into a dull abyss, or to believe too much in those voices of self that tend to whimper, "But why wasn't I asked to do that?", "She shouldn't have done it like that", "Why bother?' We can rejoice in these opportunities for bringing a little more beauty and gentleness into our lives, and that remind us of our common humanity. Ajahn Candasiri
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